In the first part of this investigation into unusual marriage practices in Bedminster, there was an eccentric clergyman at the centre of the story, while in part two Bedminster’s growth and reputation seem to have contributed to its popularity as a marriage destination. Would civil registration resolve matters? With another eccentric clergyman in charge of the parish in the first half of the nineteenth century and an ever-growing population, there’s almost certainly good reason to suspect otherwise …
NINETEENTH CENTURY BEDMINSTER BEFORE CIVIL REGISTRATION
In part two, I focused on marriages in 1806 at the Church of St. John the Baptist in Bedminster. What I didn’t mention is that two of the marriages that year were celebrated by the new vicar of the parish, Martin Richard WHISH, who would remain as the incumbent until his death in 1852. Bedminster’s population continued to grow exponentially during this period, a challenge for any vicar, not least for one who was also responsible for St. Mary Redcliffe, St. Thomas the Martyr and Abbots Leigh parish church, as well as being a prebendary of Salisbury Cathedral.
Bedminster’s growth during the first half of the nineteenth century necessitated the building of additional churches, including St. Paul’s Church in Bedminster which was consecrated as a chapel of ease on 24 October 1831 by the Bishop of Bath and Wells. This coincided with a volatile moment in Bristol’s history, as the second Reform Bill had been defeated in the House of Lords earlier that month and the Bishop of Bath and Wells was one of those who had voted against it. The Bristol Times and Mercury records on 25 October 1831 that: “His Grace arrived about 11 o’clock in the morning, and was received by the populace who had collected around the building with marked disapprobation ; but within the walls, the strictest order and decorum were observed, every way suitable to the solemnity of the occasion”. The paper goes on to report that: “By the time the service was concluded a great many persons had collected outside and on Bedminster-bridge, and as the Bishop left the Church he was assailed with groans, yells and hisses ; but the mettle of his horses soon carried him out of hearing. We are sorry to add that a few stones were thrown, one of which fell into the carriage, but without doing any injury”. A few days later, Sir Charles Wetherell’s arrival in Bristol was the final catalyst for several days of rioting. Bristol Radical History Group have a number of publications and articles on this aspect of the city’s history which are worth consulting for those with an interest in this area.
During the early period of Martin Richard WHISH’s incumbency, some of my own ancestors from north Somerset were married at St. John the Baptist and St. Mary Redcliffe. On 9 October 1809 Lucy HILLBERT and George COOK were married at St. John’s, claiming to be ‘of this parish’; the officiating minister was the curate Williams EDWARDS, who featured in part two. Lucy was born in Kewstoke and George in Litton; their daughter, Jane, was baptised at Litton on 20 August 1810, where they were living at the time of the censuses being taken in 1841, 1851 and 1861, so if they were ‘of this parish’ in Bedminster, it was only for a short period of time.
Lucy and George’s daughter, Jane COOK, married Isaac HILLMAN at St. Mary Redcliffe on 5 September 1835, a marriage at which Martin Richard WHISH officiated; again, both said to be ‘of this parish’, but Isaac was from Corston and Jane from Litton. They are living at Clutton at the time of the 1841 census. Isaac and Jane’s ‘daughter’ Jane HILLMAN (more about her complicated life story here) married, at different times, two sons of Joseph PRICE and Sarah BLANNING. Joseph came from Publow, while Sarah was born at Stanton Wick. They married at St. Mary Redcliffe on 9 February 1834, another marriage at which Martin Richard WHISH officiated and the couple were said to be ‘of this parish’. Just over three months later, on 11 May 1834, the couple’s first child, Jonas PRICE, was baptised at Publow, where they lived and raised a family thereafter.
As an aside, there is an interesting letter scanned with the parish register for Bedminster on Ancestry, which I include here since it is related to a marital matter, sent from Van Diemen’s Land (Tasmania) dated 16 September 1833 in which Henry TOZER – who had married Hannah SIMS at the Church of St. John the Baptist, Bedminster on 17 February 1818 – writes the following:
“I have taken the liberty of writing to you respecting my Marriage Certificate although at present upwards of seventeen thousand miles distance from you. I beg to say that in consequence of a crime committed in England I was transported to this Colony for the term of seven years and which sentence I am happy to say has now expired and I am at the present moment enjoying the Blessings of Liberty once again (thanks be to the Almighty for the same) and am determined by pursuing a steady and preserving conduct never again to forfeit that Liberty which I now so much value. I beg further to state that since my conviction in England my Wife took it so much to heart that she committed a crime for the purpose of being transported in the hopes of being allowed to reside with me but on her arrival in this Colony the Authorities deemed it necessary that one or other of us should produce our Marriage Certificate which neither of us is capable of doing without your Reverence’s kind assistance. I beg further to state that We Henry Tozer and Hannah Sims were married in the Parish Church of Bedminster Somerset in the year 1815 and therefore beg leave most respectfully to solicit the favor at your Reverence’s hand to forward a copy of our Marriage Certificate to me in this Colony as early as possible for we are very anxious to be once again together and never again to part ’till Death“
There were of course no marriage certificates as such at this time and whether or not the vicar responded is not recorded, but this is a great example of the value of looking at the entire parish register book – more of which later – and any other ephemera that may happen to have been scanned alongside it.
NO CLERGYMAN = NO MARRIAGES
Civil registration of marriages in England and Wales began on 1 July 1837. This removed the Anglican monopoly on marriages and, in theory, gave people the option of getting married at non-conformist places of worship and in registry offices. One might suppose that this would provide suitable alternatives for those who wished to covertly marry away from their home parish, but – whether through habit, faith or for some other reason – this was not, at least in the early years, necessarily the case. Getting married in the Church of England, however, was dependent on the clergyman turning up at the church …
It is evident from contemporary newspaper reports that the vicar of Bedminster, Martin Richard WHISH, was finding it increasingly challenging to tend to his congregations at the multiple churches for which he was responsible. It was reported that on Sunday 25 October 1840 there was no morning service at Bedminster as no clergyman turned up to lead worship. The Bristol Mercury commented that: “The candidates for matrimony will, in all probability, have to continue in a state of celibacy for another week in consequence of this most shameful admission, as, we understand, there is a doubt to the legality of publishing the bans in the course of the afternoon service”. Whether the writer of this piece really believed that unmarried couples remained in a state of celibacy until their wedding day is debatable, but it would at least have been something of an inconvenience for anyone who had travelled to Bedminster from north Somerset and maybe taken short-term lodgings in the parish in order to facilitate their nuptials.
The same issue arose again on the last Sunday in October 1841, at which time the Bristol Mercury suggested that WHISH ought to employ a curate to provide adequate cover and noted that six persons who were candidates for marriage had returned home unwed, adding that: “We have heard reports of the most painful circumstances having arisen in one case out of the non-performance of the marriage ceremony, but we feel bound to ascertain, beyond the shadow of a doubt, their correctness, before we give them publicity”. It is not clear what this rather cryptic comment refers to, but the Bishop of Bath and Wells did acknowledge the difficulties of managing a parish the size of Bedminster and in December 1841 it was reported in the Bristol Mercury that: “Bedminster (the population of which has been increased about 16,000 during the incumbency of the Rev. Martin R. Whish) is to be divided into three districts, each containing from 5000 to 8000 souls”. On the same page, it is reported that WHISH’s son is to be licensed as a curate of “Bedminster old church”, an act of nepotism which would nonetheless ease the burden of his father’s work.
THE CONSISTORIAL COURT
St. Mary Redcliffe was still officially a ‘daughter’ church of Bedminster at this time, which seems remarkable given its grandeur and position in the centre of Bristol. The impressive nature of this church might help to explain its popularity as a wedding venue, particularly when the clergy were overworked and somewhat apt to overlook administrative details. Bristol Temple Meads railway station opened in 1840 and the Bristol and Exeter Railway – which served a number of north Somerset villages – opened in 1844. Those familiar with Bristol will know how short a walk it is from Bristol Temple Meads to St. Mary Redcliffe so perhaps this new mode of transport made this particular church more accessible to Somerset villagers wishing to marry there.

In 1843, Martin Richard WHISH and Dr. IRVINE, curate at St. Mary Redcliffe, appeared at the consistory court in Bristol on charges relating to the marriage of non-residents who were related within the prohibited degrees. Williams REDGERS and Charlotte DURBIN, both of Nailsea, gave their address as “Redcliff Street” at the time of their marriage, however Charlotte was the sister of William’s first wife, Jane DURBIN, and as such, the marriage was prohibited at this time. The Bristol Mercury remarked that many clergymen were opposed to this law and there is plenty of evidence of marriages of this nature taking place unimpeded at parishes around the country throughout the nineteenth century.
It seems the curate of Nailsea, Reverend JOHNSON, was not so sympathetic, as he told the court he had made enquiries at three churches in Bristol due to his suspicions that William REDGERS and Charlotte DURBIN planned to marry and had written to Dr. IRVINE about the matter. JOHNSON said he had remonstrated with the couple before the wedding and told them they could not be married, but this was clearly to no avail. In the Bristol Times and Mirror it is recorded that the Archdeacon: “had letters from clergymen complaining that in Redcliff in particular marriages were celebrated out of their proper parish” and wished to draw attention to this fact. The Clerk told the Archdeacon he considered 15 days to be sufficient residence in the parish and mentions that he had read in the papers about “a clandestine marriage brought from the country and celebrated in Bristol church”.
IRVING claimed his reluctance to act on second-hand information was because he had once received a letter purporting to be from a groom’s father objecting to a marriage which had afterwards turned out to have been written by a disappointed suitor of the bride. On the inside cover of the parish register of marriages for the Church of St. John the Baptist in Bedminster there is the handwritten text of a letter sent to the editor of the Bristol Mercury in 1843 regarding “the late trial for illicit marriage – at St. Mary Redcliffe” which states Dr. Irvine was “falsely accused” and goes on to defend the position, arguing that the clergy do not wish to face lawsuits for refusing to marry a couple and that they may therefore perform marriages without “sufficient knowledge” of any prohibited degrees of affinity between the betrothed couple.
Correspondence in the Bristol Mercury around this time refers to reports of clandestine marriages and difficulties in verifying residence in populous parishes, making the suggestion that perhaps at least investigating a few of the more suspicious cases might put off some of the others. There is also a claim made of a marriage between an aunt and nephew in recent years, which prompts a response from WHISH: “I beg to state that my Curate tells me he is not conscious of ever having married such person who stand in the relation of AUNT and NEPHEW, at any time, or ever heard that such were married in the church of St. Mary Redcliffe“. He goes on to say that another alleged clandestine marriage had been struck out of the register book, with the parties marrying instead at a neighbouring church. The aunt-nephew marriage may not be as shocking as this first sounds if it refers to an aunt by marriage, perhaps widowed, and the age difference may not be great in such circumstances; perhaps the youngest son of a large family had been married to the aunt and the nephew’s father was the oldest son of that family, for example. I have come across plenty of examples of large nineteenth century families where the younger children are already aunts/uncles at the moment they are born; a particular case in my own family comes to mind where an aunt’s widower married a niece who was around the same age as her deceased aunt, the aunt being the youngest of a dozen children and the niece being the daughter of one of the eldest.
It was not always the actions of the clergy that were brought into question at the consistory court. Another interesting marriage case was reported in the Globe newspaper in 1845, concerning divorce proceedings between William DAVIS and his wife Jane (nee DURBIN). In 1833 she was said to have committed adultery with Abraham FULLER, then lived with Edward HOLDER as his mistress using the name of Mrs. WHITFORD and, more recently, lived with James DALLY as his wife. The marriage of Williams DAVIS and Jane DURBIN had taken place on 15 October 1832 at Bedminster with the bride’s name given as Jane DOBBINS in the parish register. Evidence reportedly proved the allegations to be true and the couple were divorced on grounds of adultery.
MARTIN RICHARD WHISH
The parish registers for the Church of St. John the Baptist in Bedminster and St. Mary Redcliffe – available via Ancestry – have a great deal more to offer than simply entries of baptisms, marriages and burials. The front and back pages are full of notes and letters written by the vicar and, in the case of St. Mary Redcliffe for a time, a handwritten A-Z index of persons named therein. One note dated 1845, in the parish register of marriages at Bedminster, seems particularly worth considering: “Having repeatedly had letters of complaint from certain Clergyman & others, not always couched in terms of courtesy, & for the most part without any legal grounds of objection which they can prove […] Is it not unreasonable to expect me, or any Curate to go round the hovels of every street, to enquire after the parties of another Parish of whom I know not one?”
Describing the homes of parishioners as ‘hovels’, one imagines, would not be well-received by the vicar’s congregation, but it is clear from this comment that the local clergy had neither the time nor inclination to check up on the residence claims of every person who came to marry at their churches. The cases reported in local newspapers also appeared other newspapers around the country, perhaps unwittingly providing further publicity for the churches for which WHISH was responsible as suitable venues for covert marriages.
Martin Richard WHISH was an interesting character. Notes in the parish register and newspaper reports demonstrate his “zeal for Protestantism” (as noted in the Bristol TImes and Mirror in 1850). He railed against Irvingism (the Catholic Apostolic Church) as “a covert and very subtle, but modern form of Arianism” in the Bristol Mirror in 1835 and addressed the Bristol Missionary Society in 1939, expressing a desire to challenge the Catholic Church’s “ascendancy on the continent of Europe … particularly in France”, as reported in the Bristol Mercury. In the parish register notes he expresses opposition to the Catholic Emancipation Bill of 1829 and writes enthusiastically in defence of Protestantism.
It is the Church of England, however, for which Martin Richard WHISH causes the most disruption towards the end of his incumbency, as following the death of the Bishop of Bath and Wells (George Henry LAW) in 1845, Bedminster was instead made subject to the authority of the Bishop of Gloucester and Bristol. WHISH objected to this quite vocally and posted a protest on the doors of the church in Bedminster, for which proceedings were commenced under the Church Discipline Act. He continued to object to this arrangement until his death in 1852.
In 1848 the church at Abbots Leigh was destroyed by fire, but despite arrangements being hastily made for the schoolroom to be used for services, the Bristol Times and Mirror reported that “nothing has been seen or heard of Mr. Whish, who seems from this to think that the burning of the old church has relieved him from his duty until a new one is built“.
In 1850 the perpetual curate of St. Peter’s, Bishopsworth – Rev. Henry BRANCKER – complained that WHISH had interrupted a service and asked BRANCKER to leave the pulpit, believing that he still had authority at the church, which had formerly been the case; the Bristol Mirror reported that when WHISH got into the pulpit, “the whole of the congregation, with the exception of two old deaf women and the charity children, quitted the church“.
CHANGE COMES TO BEDMINSTER?
Martin Richard WHISH died on 7 April 1852 from bronchitis at Redcliff Vicarage. The Bristol Times and Mirror perhaps provides the most balanced assessment of his character: “The late incumbent of Redcliff had some peculiarities, amongst which was most remarkable his style of composition and the resolution with which he held out for what he believed to be his ecclesiastical rights ; he was, however, withal a most kind-hearted, sincere, and charitable man, and always preserved under every circumstance the temper and manners or a gentleman”.
The church authorities immediately took the opportunity, following WHISH’s death, to review matters in Bedminster, with chapels of ease – most notably St. Mary Redcliffe – becoming parish churches in their own right. Having witnessed WHISH’s reaction to the previous change in diocesan authority, one could imagine perhaps they daren’t have suggested such a thing while he was still alive! Other churches were built in the area as Bedminster continued to grow, including St. Raphael’s in 1858 and St. Luke’s in 1861. The Church of St. John the Baptist at Bedminster had stood since 1663 – its predecessor having been burned down during the Civil War – but in 1854 was demolished to be replaced by a new church building the following year. The new Church of St. John the Baptist in Bedminster was destroyed after less than a century by bombing during the Second World War.
Did any of this change make much difference to the marriage practices that were going on in Bristol and Bedminster? Perhaps to some extent, but there is evidence that attention to detail was still lacking in some of these churches later on in the nineteenth century and Somerset villagers continued to go to churches in and around Bristol to get married throughout the nineteenth and early twentieth century. Similar patterns can no doubt be found in other cities where folk came from the country to get married. Was it a matter of status or tradition? An intention to move to the city after marriage? A village church being repaired or awaiting appointment of a new vicar? Or something they wanted to keep secret from the local vicar or community? Whatever the reasons, the villagers of north Somerset are often found getting married at churches in Bristol before returning to their home parishes and it will not always be clear why they chose to do this. Do not, however, assume that the address your villager ancestor provides on their marriage certificate was their permanent residence. I have seen a number of examples of pubs and lodging houses being given as the address or perhaps the home of a relative who happens to live in that parish.
Jane, the ‘daughter’ of Isaac HILLMAN and Jane COOK mentioned earlier in this post, married her deceased husband’s brother at St. Luke’s, Bedminster in 1888 and used the address of his sister to assert the residency qualification to marry in the parish. Jane had been living in Uphill, Somerset up to this point and her new husband had been living in America for some years. Once again the residency requirement is in question here, as well as the matter of marrying a deceased husband’s brother, but it hardly seems like the crime of the century. If local vicars in the villages were sticklers for the rules and those in the city were more liberal minded, it doesn’t seem unreasonable that this practice continued to persist. In many ways, marrying a deceased spouse’s sibling was a very practical solution for all concerned.
In 1874 my great-great-great uncle Edward John PERRETT, who was a confectioner in Bedminster, married his second wife Elizabeth Jane SMITHERAM at St. John’s. Although he was a widower, the parish register states he was a bachelor; this doesn’t really matter too much, but perhaps hints at an ongoing lack of attention to detail. By contrast, when his son Albert John PERRETT married Alice Ophelia NOBLE at St. Paul’s, Bedminster in 1909, the bride’s middle name was incorrectly spelled as ‘Aphelia’; this has been amended by a correctional note in the margin of the register, initialled by the vicar, Thomas Taylor ROBINSON. Perhaps a sign that things were starting to change!
There is a huge amount of data available in parish registers for Bedminster and Bristol which might be evaluated and cross-referenced with other records to determine the prevalence of marriages that were recorded incorrectly, whether from outside the parish, within prohibited degrees or some other inaccuracy. An in-depth study would perhaps allow trends to be tracked through time and certain other parishes highlighted at different times.
There was of course another way to get round the issue of a marriage not being permissible and that was to live together as though man and wife without getting married at all … so in my next blog post – coming soon – I’ll be introducing my ancestor Francis and explaining why that’s exactly what he did!
Bristol and Somerset parish registers are available at Ancestry. It’s worth being aware that Bedminster is indexed under the ‘Bristol’ drop-down in the parish register collection when using the browse function, but Ancestry defaults to ‘Bedminster, Somerset, England’ when searching by place, as the parish was historically part of Somerset. I would recommend using the Card Catalogue to focus on the Bristol parish register collections in order to locate Bedminster parish register entries of interest.
All newspapers referred to in this post were found using the British Newspaper Archive, also available via Findmypast.



















